As a parent, you may get confused about what you should teach your child and what not. We must not underestimate the power of our words when it comes to parenting. Our words have the power to either strengthen or weaken our children, and it is important to speak carefully and refrain from saying anything that can be cruel or detrimental to their self-esteem. There are some words or expressions that we should not use when talking to our kids, as they can hurt and injure our emotions permanently.
Encourage them to participate
Jenn Berman, Psy.D., author of The “A to Z Guide to Raising Happy, Confident Kids”, suggests not saying generic praise when a child achieves a milestone. Instead, praise should be specific and detailed, such as “That was a terrific assist” rather than “Fantastic game.”
Behave positively
If you live with a teenager, you may have seen him become agitated over things. Sometimes it seems trivial or unimportant to us. Even though his actions may seem childish, try not to discount his feelings. A child can become angry, upset, and grumpy when they find that others don’t care or value their opinions or feelings.
Never compare
Comparing siblings can lead to conflict and low self-esteem, but when kids feel better about themselves and their place in the family, they make better decisions.
Help them to practice
Perfect practice makes perfect, but this can lead to pressure to succeed. Instead, motivate your child to work hard so they can advance and feel proud of their accomplishments.
Learn them to interact with strangers
Never interact with strangers, as it can be difficult for young children to understand. Nancy McBride, executive director of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, Florida Regional Office in Lake Park, warns that children may interpret this regulation incorrectly and oppose the assistance of police or firefighters. Discuss hypothetical situations with children.