None of us want uncomfortableness in a relationship. Rather our intention is to establish peace. We always try to make “negative” feelings go away. But the question is whether it is possible to fix everything in our relationship or not. Because when your partner gets angry and you try to solve it to make things better. But if your partner denies it, you may get frustrated and feel completely discouraged, stressed, and rejected. It may seem to you that you can never do anything right.
It is true that you cannot fix everything in your relationship. It is also not logical and realistic. However, there are some ways to nourish the relationship. Here we are suggesting some good and effective ways to make your relationship comfortable.
Take a break
Every relationship requires some responsibilities. Sometimes we are overwhelmed with these responsibilities. So, it is always better to take a break and spend some time with yourself. When you or your partner is struggling with something, try to take a break and breathe consciously. Because calming down for a while can work as a quick therapy. It will also strengthen your emotional intelligence and tolerance.
Stop making assumptions
When we are in a relationship, we often make some assumptions about our partner. But our assumptions may not guide us to the right path. Sometimes we cannot read the mind of our partner properly which can create confusion as well as misunderstandings in our relationship. For example, when your partner is not talking much, you may assume that your partner’s vibe is off. But in reality, it may not be true. Maybe your partner is going through any physical or mental problem which is unknown to you. So, instead of making assumptions, you should talk to your partner.
Set boundaries for each one
The relationship doesn’t indicate that you have to ignore your individualism. Every person has their own choices and personality. Couples should respect their partners’ choices and desires. A healthy relationship always allows space for both partners. So, it is wise to discuss with your partner and set boundaries for each one. This practice will help you to develop a comfortable relationship for a long time.